While these are all important prayers, they can be somewhat safe prayers. What I mean by that is that we have a specific answer in mind when we present the prayer to God. Safe, in that the prayer doesn't request a whole lot of change in ourselves.
If our prayers are too safe, then what is a "dangerous" prayer? For some people, it could be simply, "Lord, give me patience." I'm telling you, God has a good time in answering that one! I can only imagine how many people pray for patience for their kids who try to stretch their boundaries on a daily (or hourly) basis. Or praying for patience before going to the DMV on the last day of the month when the lines seem to be longest and customers the crankiest. You pray for patience, and God will put you in a place where you will know you need it! But even still "Lord, grant me patience" can be considered a "safe" prayer, because we are asking for what in the end will be something that we can visualize, and doesn't necessarily result in creating a drastic change in our lives.
Listed below are six areas that I think are "dangerous" prayers. What makes these dangerous? Because they are a danger to our comfort zone. They are a danger to our sinful nature. They open our lives to living an adventure with our omnipotent God.
- Search Me (Psalm 139:23-24). Asking God to show you what is in you that shouldn't be there, revealing where you need to partner with Him to change.
- Break Me (Psalm 51:17). This is where you go to God, sorry for what you have done wrong, as well as the right things you have done for wrong reasons, and give God permission to do the work He needs to do in you, to shape you and re-form you more like Christ.
- Stretch me (James 1:3,4). At this stage you are being challenged in your spiritual growth. A "Stretch me" prayer develops perseverance to make the necessary changes. Without perseverance it would be too easy to give up and go back to "playing it safe."
- Lead me (Psalm 27:11). "Teach me your ways..." Time to surrender your personal agenda and allow God to rearrange it. In the words of John the Baptist, "He (Jesus) must become greater; I must become less." The more you are led by God and the Holy Spirit, the more you will find that you are obedient to His plans, and the more your agenda is aligned with His.
- Use me (John 14:12-14). We are empowered to do the will of God, to do the work of Jesus. A "Use me" prayer places us in situations where we need to be ready and available to respond to the prompting of the Holy Spirit. To not respond means to miss out on what could lead to adventure of doing things for the glory of God.
- Show me the harvest (Matthew 9:35-38). This is what God has broken and re-formed you for. Your heart will ache for the same things that God's heart aches for. You will find purpose and fulfillment in working in the field that God has brought you to.